A Story of Perseverance: Porfirio Mendoza’s Journey Through Running and Life
Today, the second Friday of January, is known as Quitters’ Day—a day when many people give up on their goals or resolutions. At Latinos of CT, we believe it’s the perfect moment to highlight someone who embodies perseverance and resilience. Meet Porfirio Mendoza, a man whose story reminds us that dreams are worth chasing, no matter the obstacles. Through running, Porfirio discovered the transformative power of discipline, grit, and community—a journey that continues to inspire those around him.
At just 8 years old, Porfirio didn’t know that running would become a lifelong passion. What started as a simple activity to be healthier—“I was a little chunky,” he admits—quickly evolved into a journey of self-discovery and growth. Inspired by his older siblings Cirilo and Irma, who were avid runners in their native Chapultepec district of Mexico, young Porfirio began to lace up his shoes and join them.
“I remember crying while trying to catch up to them,” Porfirio recalls, “I didn’t want to be left behind.” Over time, this determination grew into a daily habit. By his teenage years, he was running every morning, honing not just his body but his mind.
At 14, a local runner invited him to participate in the Maratón de Puebla. Excited yet unprepared, Porfirio faced a harsh reality: “I failed miserably. It took me six hours to finish,” he says with a laugh. But instead of giving up, he saw it as a challenge. A year later, he ran the same marathon and shaved off an entire hour from his time. “That’s when I learned the importance of mental strength. Running taught me to push past limits—a lesson I carry to this day.”
At 19 years old, Porfirio’s ultimate goal was to run the New York City Marathon, a race that symbolized opportunity and growth. He secured a sports visa to run a half marathon in the Bronx. The following year, at 20, he fulfilled his dream of running the NYC Marathon.
Returning to Mexico, he faced a setback when his visa application to participate again was denied. Undeterred, Porfirio kept training. Life, however, had other plans. For eight years, he stepped away from competitive running as he navigated work, life, and eventually made his move to New Canaan, Connecticut. Even during this hiatus, he participated in smaller local races in New Canaan, staying connected to the sport that had shaped him.
During this time, Porfirio met Gemma, the woman who would become his wife. His passion for running immediately stood out. She admired his discipline and the way running shaped his character. Eventually, Gemma joined him in some of his runs, and the couple even completed a marathon together.
“It’s a testament to his dedication—not just to the sport, but to everything he does.” This year, Porfirio participated in his eighth NYC Marathon, proudly supported by Gemma. To date, he has completed over 30 marathons—a remarkable milestone that reflects his unwavering commitment.
During the pandemic, Porfirio faced one of his greatest challenges: the loss of his brother Cirilo, the person who had inspired him to run. The grief was profound, but running became a source of healing. Despite the difficulties of training during the pandemic, Porfirio adapted, finding solace in every mile. “Running became my lifeline,” he explains.
2024 TCS New York City Marathon
The 2024 NYC Marathon held a special significance for Porfirio. After recovering from a muscle tear just days before the race, he made a last-minute decision to forgo his music playlist and immerse himself in the energy of the crowd. “The NYC Marathon has one of the most engaged and biggest crowds,” he says. “I wanted to hear every cheer, every drumbeat. It was unforgettable.”
Despite the challenges—running cramps and the lingering effects of his injury—Porfirio finished the race, achieving the time he had envisioned during training.
Porfirio credits running for shaping his life—not just physically but mentally and emotionally. It has helped him navigate grief, maintain his health, and strengthen his relationships. His story is a testament to the power of persistence, the importance of setting goals, and the role of loved ones in our journey.
Running is more than a sport for Porfirio; it’s a lifelong passion that he credits with making him a better brother and husband. Looking ahead, he dreams of running the Berlin, London, and Tokyo marathons. He has already applied for the Chicago 2025 Marathon, determined to conquer all the World Marathon Majors.
If you live in Stamford, you may have seen Porfirio running through Cove Beach, Scalzi Park, or your neighborhood streets. Don’t hesitate to say hello! And if you’re interested in joining a running group for yourself or your child, reach out to us at latinosofct@gmail.com.